Sonia Dunbar
Greensboro UCC
August 29, 2010
Angels and Radical Hospitality
(Genesis 18.1-8 and Hebrews 12.14-15, 13.1-3, 5, 7-8)
As I read the lectionary passages for today, searching for the verses which would inspire me for this reflection, I kept returning to the passage in Hebrews and specifically to the first and second verses of Chapter 13: “Let mutual love continue. Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by doing that some have entertained angels without knowing it.”
Disguised angels appear throughout the Bible, often looking no different from ordinary humans. In the passage from Genesis for example, God and two angels look like three very ordinary men when they appear to Abraham and Sarah. They could have been peasants, robbers, camel drivers, or any number of a host of outcasts from the dregs of that society. Abraham has never seen these men before and he certainly does not know who they truly are. But he greets them and treats them in a most remarkable manner. As he sees the men from the doorway of his tent on a typical, scorching mid-day in the Middle Eastern dessert, he gets up, runs out to them, and bows deeply. He asks that they grant him the honour of bringing them some of his precious stores of water to drink, of giving them an opportunity to wash their hot, achy feet and allowing them to rest next to his tent in the shade of a tree. Although this offer may not stand out to us in our marvelously rich 21st century culture, for its time and its circumstances, Abraham’s offer was nothing short of extravagant. But when the three accept his offer, Abraham and Sarah go above and beyond that original offer by not simply providing them bread and water, but serving them specially made cakes from their best flour, plus meat, cheese and milk. The hosts didn’t even join in the meal with the strangers; Abraham stood nearby, under a tree, ready to wait upon them.
What struck me in particular about this story was that there was nothing in the telling of it which could lead us to believe that Abraham treated these three men any differently from any other travelers who had previously crossed his path.
The more I meditated on these passages, the more brightly the spotlight glared on my personal failures and weaknesses. So forgive me that this reflection is a bit of a confessional musing.
On the cusp of another church school year as we begin our efforts to keep - and improve - church school attendance, the demographics of this, my home church, came starkly into focus, a focus highlighted recently for me in realizing that at 47, I am often the baby of the choir. So, where are the disguised angels who are our children? Our youth? For that matter, where are the disguised angels who are their parents? I do not believe we will find the answers until we can first face these questions inspired by our scripture passages today: How do we as a denomination, as a church, as a community, how do I as an individual, treat the disguised angels we come upon? How do we and more important, how should we?
It seems clear from the Abraham story and the admonition in Hebrews that mere kindness isn’t sufficient. Nor is generic hospitality. We are seeking to entertain angels and angels are divine beings after all; so the kindness we show, the hospitality we embody should be appropriate for their status. And what does that hospitality look like for a Christian church community in the 21st century?
Robert Schnase, a United Methodist Bishop, provides some guidance to living these questions in his book, Five Practices of Fruitful Congregations. In his chapter entitled, “The Practice of Radical Hospitality,” Schnase either directly or indirectly helps to identify three necessary themes: 1) the identity of the host; 2) the identity of the recipient; and 3) constituent elements of a level of hospitality which he believes is necessary to save the Christian churches.
Who are the hosts?
So who is it who is supposed to provide the hospitality to the strangers on behalf of the church?
Did you notice that in the Genesis story Abraham didn’t designate the responsibility of playing host to anyone else, like, say, his pastor? He and his family took on the responsibility and privilege of welcoming and comforting these people he did not know. Similarly, in Hebrews, which was written to a Christian community as a whole, the verse admonishing us to give hospitality to strangers comes fast on the heels of the reminder to: “Let mutual love continue.”
Who are we collectively then as the hosts to the world of angels who can grace our sacred community? Schnase describes a congregation as “a school for love, the place where God’s Spirit forms us and the place where we learn to give love to and receive love from friends, neighbors, and strangers.” Let me repeat that. A congregation is, “a school for love, the place where God’s Spirit forms us and the place where we can learn to give love to and receive love from friends, neighbors and strangers.”
Notice that this definition doesn’t use the passive forms of the verbs. We shouldn’t be content with just learning what love “is”, or making bullet-point lists of ways in which we can provide caring without getting our hands dirty. Abraham didn’t just yell from the doorway, “Hey, I’ve got water; help yourself.” He left his comfortable seat in the doorway of his own tent and ran out to stop the travelers, offer his gifts and then waited to see that they had all they wanted, irrespective of who they were.
None of us can be sure that we will never be the one to whom a divine messenger will appear. None of us can be sure that we’re not the one whom God has made responsible for bringing the one most needy for divine love into this church-house. WWJD - what would Jesus do? That’s pretty trite these days, but the question remains valid. Who would Jesus allow through our doors? Who would Jesus actively invite in? And how would Jesus treat her or him once here?
Who are the Angels?
What does an angel look like? Several years ago the movie “Michael” came out and the part of the archangel was played by John Travolta. In the first scene where Michael appears, Travolta is slogging down the stairs, unshaven, slovenly, wearing boxers, a sleeveless white T-shirt and black socks. Certainly not the vision most of us have of a heavenly messenger from God. What he provided and achieved though by the end of the film couldn’t leave anyone in doubt that they had been in the presence of divinity.
Now, once upon a time, on a Sunday morning not unlike this, in a little white church, in a little rural town, there appeared a strange man. He smiled at the people, said “Hello,” laughed with the children and sat down in the back pew, immediately behind one of the distinguished elders of the church.
Worship services went along as they had for many Sundays, for many years, and the congregation settled comfortably into the pews as the pastor began her sermon. Everything preceded as usual for several minutes, when suddenly, following a particularly salient point in the sermon, the strange man piped up from the back pew, “Amen!” The members of the congregation shifted uncomfortably in their seats. Some glanced out of the corners of their eyes at the man and many pursed their lips in annoyance. The pastor thought, “Good! This fellow is with me on this,” and she began speaking with just a bit more energy and conviction.
Another few minutes pass and the pastor arrives at another key lesson for the day. The strange man’s right arm shoots up, fist raised, a broad grin on his face: “Hallelujah!” he exclaims. The congregation members now openly turn toward the man and glare at him. Several exchange whispers of annoyance. The distinguished elder sitting in front of the man fumes, while the pastor becomes more impassioned and inspired by the outburst, delivering her sermon with more zeal that she had felt in years.
Another few minutes, another core teaching and the pastor suddenly emphasizes her point by pounding her fist down on the lectern. The congregation gasps. The strange man jumps to his feet, both arms waving in the air, smiling eyes focused heavenward: “Praise the Lord!” he shouts.
The elder whirls around and confronts the stranger: “Sir. We do not ‘Praise the Lord’ in this church!”
Are there times when we have told angels disguised as strangers that they cannot “Praise the Lord” in our church? I certainly hope not. But, do we do it silently by expecting newcomers to act like us old-timers? Do we silently tell our children that, by expecting them to be as silent as adults and sitting still for an hour on hard, wood benches? What if our next angel walked through that door, with spiked blue hair, pierced eyebrows, combat boots with chains, laughing uproariously? Would we silently ignore her and by our silence tell her she can’t “Praise the Lord” in our church? Or would we introduce her to everyone, tell her choir practice starts at 8:30 on Sunday morning, offer her coffee and crackers after services, and invite her to bring her children and her friends to church next Sunday because all would be welcome?
If this woman walked through the door right now, how would we know she isn’t an angel? How do you know I’m not? If anyone has an ‘angel-o-meter’ on hand, I’d really love to see it.
So these two scripture passages are telling us that all of us are responsible for providing extravagant hospitality to everyone. Tall order. But now what is the hospitality which we are expected to share as 21st century Christians?
What is Christian hospitality?
Schnase says that: “Hospitality is a quality of spiritual initiative, the practice of an active and genuine love, a graciousness unaffected by self-interest, an opening of ourselves and our faith community to receive others.” He doesn’t stop with that, however. He also notes that Christian hospitality includes “a love that motivates members to openness and adaptability, a willingness to change behaviors in order to accommodate the needs and receive the talents of newcomers.”
Every newcomer changes us down to the core of our being, whether we desire it or not, whether we recognize it or not. Close your eyes for a moment. Take a deep breath in. And exhale. Now think of the people immediately surrounding you. Take another deep breath in, but this time, don’t breathe in anything which was exhaled by the people around you. Trying not to adapt to a stranger is like trying not to inhale air exhaled by someone else; eventually, even if you succeed, you die.
Spiritual initiative cannot take place in a single hour, once a week, in a particular building, surrounded by the same faces. Jesus of Nazareth did not guide us to be who we have become, or even desire to be, by sequestering himself in temples and never challenging the traditions of his faith. He was a radical thorn in the side of the religious status quo. And he even changed his behavior to accommodate the needs and talents of others on occasion. I believe that I owe it to myself, that we owe it to ourselves, that we owe it to our children, to look deeply and honestly into the mirror held aloft by these scripture passages and see where we can welcome others in a more Godly, more Christ-like manner.
As we look toward blessing this community for years well beyond our present day, as we prepare to welcome children back into the joy which can be experienced playing ‘Follow the Leader’ with Jesus, may we find angels everywhere and may we embrace them deeply. With Wisdom, Compassion and Forgiveness, we humbly say, “Amen.”

